Bitterness is not your friend

It can be very hard to detach feelings about separation, divorce and the life thereafter from dealing with issues in the family Court.

It is natural, for both parents to bring in their historic issues and want some kind of restorative justice. Unfortunately, in cases which involve children and shared care arrangements, the adults are a secondary concern to the needs of the juniors.

Is there a difference between a Narcissist and Controller?

I find, today, that people have become confused by the difference in meaning of what a narcissist is, versus a controlling person or a coercively controlling person. And in so doing, the word ‘Narcissist’ has become a definition and term for any kind of controlling behaviour.